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“Too much assumption is the mother of all f*ck-ups”, it says in Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, that Guy Richie film.

i got the quote from caravaggio of peyups, in her article Driver's Ed 101 : How to Fall in Love.

in that article, she shared the experience of a girl pal who did not fully appreciate the romantic fraca of her boyfriend, as she was being cautious and keeping herself from getting hurt. The other story was of caravaggio's guy friend who actually thought that there was something going on between him and an incredibly charismatic girl, but when charismatic girl was asked she apologeticaly said wala talaga. haay. too bad for the boyfriend of the cautious girl and too bad for the guy in love with charismatic girl. but then, there is no manual on how to love, or how to safeguard your heart, diba?

in the article caravaggio said:

We learn these lessons after heartbreak: think with your head, not with you heart. Don’t rush into things. Don’t assume. Don’t look for things that aren’t there, and don’t ignore things that are in front of you.

But whatever happened to all the other lessons we are taught when not recovering from heartbreak? The lessons we learn in love stories and song lyrics and movie lines? Take the risk. Love is possible without pain or misery. There’s someone out there for us. Don’t be alarmed if you fall head over feet. Wise men say, only fools rush in, but I can’t help falling in love for crying out loud.

so what is it supposed to be? you dont really know for sure diba?? caravaggio said that falling in love is a lot like driving. makikibagay ka lang sa daan. if its bumpy, you might wana take extra care, keep it agonizingly slow... and slowly but surely, ull get to ur destination. if the road is wide and long, you feel like going fast, but you risk having a good crash and burn.

parang di parin nasasagot yung tanong ko kung paano dapat...

driving requires one not to ignore what is in front of him. the problem is, i dont know what is infront of me! i dunno how to proceed... with caution? or with care tossed to the air?

this is why i dont drive. this is why i dont love. i dont know how.

love and peace beeyotch!

ciao!